Most people try too hard at love. Love is not difficult. Marriage is not a ball and chain. My husband is my best friend. We have years together without major fights, with many wonderful memories, and many more years of those wonderful memories to come. Spend some time finding a friend who can also be your lover, and you have it made. I'm only 20 - I was lucky to find my husband so early in life. It may take you longer, it may not. Just remember that marriage doesn't have to be the misery it is said to be, and that you can create your own happiness.